Curb Your Anger with Gratitude

Jalāl al-Dīn Muḥammad Rūmī (born September 30, 1207, in Balkh, present-day Afghanistan – died December 17, 1273, in Konya, present-day Turkey) is revered as one of the world’s greatest poets, mystics, and spiritual teachers. Known in the West simply as Rumi, he was born into a family of scholars and mystics who fled westward during the Mongol invasions, eventually settling in Konya, then part of the Seljuk Empire. Under the guidance of his father, Bahāʾ al-Dīn Walad, Rumi was trained in Islamic theology, jurisprudence, and the contemplative disciplines of the Sufi path. His early years reflected the classical model of a scholar-saint—rooted in devotion, study, and service to his community.

Rumi’s life was transformed by his meeting with the wandering mystic Shams of Tabriz around 1244. Their profound spiritual companionship awakened in Rumi a passion that transcended formal learning and opened him to the depths of divine love. When Shams mysteriously disappeared, Rumi’s grief became the flame that illuminated his poetry and devotion. From this crucible emerged the Mathnawī, often called the “Persian Qur’an,” a six-volume masterpiece that weaves stories, parables, and reflections into a vision of love as the animating force of all creation. His shorter lyric poems, collected in the Divan-e Shams-e Tabrizi, sing of longing, union, loss, and the ecstatic dance between the soul and the Beloved.

Rumi’s teachings centered on the transforming power of divine love, the unity underlying all faiths, and the inward journey from self-centeredness to God-centeredness. He taught that every experience—joy and sorrow, presence and absence—serves as a mirror reflecting the divine mystery. After his passing, his followers established the Mevlevi Order, known for its sacred whirling as a form of remembrance (dhikr). Across eight centuries, Rumi’s voice has transcended language, culture, and creed, inviting seekers into the stillness of the heart where the human and divine meet in love."
Rumi's spiritual journey led him to develop a unique approach to Sufism that emphasized love, tolerance, and the pursuit of enlightenment. He created a fusion of traditional Islamic beliefs with mysticism, nurturing a school of thought that flourished in his followers. They established a sect known to the Western world as the 'Whirling Dervishes', a term derived from their mesmerizing practice of whirling as a form of physical meditation. The proper name for this branch is the Mevlevi order, dedicated to preserving and promoting Rumi's teachings.

In addition to being a mystic, Rumi was an accomplished scholar and theologian who left behind an impressive literary legacy. His best-known work, the Mathnawi or Masnavi, is a six-volume poetic epic that explores themes of love, divine mystery, and human connection to the spiritual world. Rumi's poetic style is marked by profound emotion and philosophical depth, weaving metaphors and allegory to create timeless pieces that continue to inspire readers today. Rumi's influence reaches far beyond his time, as his teachings on love, compassion, and unity continue to touch the hearts of millions, transcending barriers of religion, culture, and era.